Wait? There’s benefits? Come on, Red… no way!
Hear me out… there’s some HUGE benefits, honestly.
Sure… Erectile Dysfunction can be frustrating as hell. It can be embarrassing and even disappointing. It’s incredibly messed up when everything within you is so damn into the moment, but the one part of you that needs to engage decides to check out.
But…
- It teaches you that orgasms, while AWESOME, are NOT the only reason for physical intimacy (or fun.)
- It teaches you to rely less on just one part of your anatomy to please other people
- It teaches you that you have value and worth beyond that one physical attribute
- It forces you to become more creative
- It forces you to be more communicative
- It requires you to learn more about your own body, the meds you are taking, and the other health concerns you have
- It opens you up to experiences you may not have considered before
- It can make you a far better lover because you aren’t so one-sided.
I’m not advocating that you should have to deal with ED. Hell no… if you can avoid it, fix it or get help for it, then by all means… do.
BUT, I am advocating for learning the lessons as early on as you can.
Even if you are not dealing with ED, or even if it’s just mild from time to time, imagine your life without that one physical attribute working, and then learn how to become a more well rounded lover.
For the most part, my own ED experience has become much more limited. Thankfully, I am pretty well functional most of the time. However, what I learned in dealing with ED are lessons I should have learned a long time ago, and have truly helped make me much better in that area.
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