My Writings

REAL WORDS FOR REAL PEOPLE

This isn’t polished advice or cookie-cutter inspiration.
It’s real stories, raw insights, and the kind of truths we don’t always say out loud... but should.
Take what hits. Leave what doesn’t.
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Tag: Love

Comparison vs Compersion

Which one are you feeling? Comparison or Compersion? You see, this is important to recognize if you’re in a relationship – and it’s NOT limited to poly! You can find yourself fighting these same feelings whether your poly or[…]

Caring For & Being In Love With

Caring for someone and being in love with someone or too very distinct different things. They are not always usually inclusive, though. When you care for someone, you want to see them happy. You want to see them, succeed[…]

That’s What This Is About

Well, this week, that pretty much happened. It wasn’t so much an “emergency”, but I had a partner that was dealing some significant pain due to chronic joint pain issues. It was at the level that had already sent[…]

Score Cards in Relationships

When we are in a relationship, it’s important for us to keep our eyes open to what’s going on. It’s natural, it’s protective. After all, we’re being vulnerable with someone else, so we need to know that we can[…]