This isn’t polished advice or cookie-cutter inspiration.
It’s real stories, raw insights, and the kind of truths we don’t always say out loud... but should.
Take what hits. Leave what doesn’t.
Either way... you’re welcome here.

I’ve never liked the concept of hierarchy within polyamorous relationships. The concept of telling someone that they are “secondary” always felt so very offensive to me. How in the hell do you tell someone they are “second place” in[…]

About a decade ago, I stepped into the very odd and interesting world of polyamory. I was asked by a prior partner… “Will I be the only one?” This opened the possibility of a whole new world for me.[…]