This isn’t polished advice or cookie-cutter inspiration.
It’s real stories, raw insights, and the kind of truths we don’t always say out loud... but should.
Take what hits. Leave what doesn’t.
Either way... you’re welcome here.

Which one are you feeling? Comparison or Compersion? You see, this is important to recognize if you’re in a relationship – and it’s NOT limited to poly! You can find yourself fighting these same feelings whether your poly or[…]

Well, this week, that pretty much happened. It wasn’t so much an “emergency”, but I had a partner that was dealing some significant pain due to chronic joint pain issues. It was at the level that had already sent[…]

I’ve never liked the concept of hierarchy within polyamorous relationships. The concept of telling someone that they are “secondary” always felt so very offensive to me. How in the hell do you tell someone they are “second place” in[…]

About a decade ago, I stepped into the very odd and interesting world of polyamory. I was asked by a prior partner… “Will I be the only one?” This opened the possibility of a whole new world for me.[…]