My Writings

REAL WORDS FOR REAL PEOPLE

This isn’t polished advice or cookie-cutter inspiration.
It’s real stories, raw insights, and the kind of truths we don’t always say out loud... but should.
Take what hits. Leave what doesn’t.
Either way... you’re welcome here.

Tag: Sex

Comparison vs Compersion

Which one are you feeling? Comparison or Compersion? You see, this is important to recognize if you’re in a relationship – and it’s NOT limited to poly! You can find yourself fighting these same feelings whether your poly or[…]

Vulnerability. This time, about Physical Intimacy

So, read on. But save your judgement for someone who cares to hear it. Because I am far beyond worrying about that these days. I am learning to love my body and accept all aspects of who I am. Part of[…]

The Benefits of ED Issues

Wait? There’s benefits? Come on, Red… no way! Hear me out… there’s some HUGE benefits, honestly. Sure… Erectile Dysfunction can be frustrating as hell. It can be embarrassing and even disappointing. It’s incredibly messed up when everything within you[…]

How Many Degrees of Separation Matter in Poly

Poly can be tough, folks. With multiple people connected to other multiple people, and the exponential aspects that are indeed possible… things can get complex real quick. Monogamy has its benefits, for sure… one being simplicity. Time, energy, emotional[…]